I just woke from a dream where my college class took a trip to see my childhood home. No one knew I had lived there. No one knew about the pain it had seen. I thought I would be unaffected. I thought I held only curiosity for that place.
But as we arrived, I noticed a difference. The walkway was no longer broken, uneven. The yard was well-kept. The color, once a dirty, expired Pepto Bismol, was now a fresher shade of pink, one a child might use on her mother’s Valentine’s Day card.
We walked in and I was overwhelmed. The floors were clean. There were no holes in the walls. The heart of this home was not abused, but loved.
Then we were at the door to the garage. Though twenty years had passed since he left, I somehow expected to see him there, exactly as it was before – parts and tools piled floor to roof, hardly a path to get through. It would smell of rust and grease and gas, and that rough industrial hand cleaner. It would be bright with yellowed light, and have a chill that went straight to the bones. He would be attaching one unrecognizable piece to another, hitting it with a hammer when it didn’t do as he wished. I saw it all in my mind, but I had to see for myself whether the house had really changed, or whether it was simply getting better at enduring. I had to open the door.
My breath caught in my throat and tears poured. I gazed into a beautiful motorcycle shop, clean and inviting, with employees who smiled genuinely as they asked if they could help. I stood in that doorway, silent streams slipping down my face, as my professor and classmates stared.
“I lived here,” I said. “I almost died here.”
My professor opened her mouth to ask, but closed it without a word. One man stepped away from the group. He’d been in many classes of my youth and shared my father’s name. He stood with me, looking at me with a gentle smile. He was willing to hear my story. I nodded and we left.
I looked back at that house one last time, a final image to carry with me.
The house had healed its scars.
It was now living happily, filled with love.
And so can I.